‘Hospital Test’
When it comes to bothering about what others think of you, there is a difference between being nice and being stupid
if you bother about every Tom Hick Harry, you are not being nice to them, you are simply being stupid by allowing their sundry opinions affect your mental peace
the people whose opinion should matter are the ones who , maybe, will be deeply perturbed when they hear that you/ your family members are , say, in a hospital -maybe they will leave all work and rush off to the hospital , I call it the ‘Hospital Test’ and trust me, after you filter using this list , it won’t be long*
If your life events are just news to someone, you better understand how much importance to give
There could always be some genuine reasons why someone cannot rush off to the hospital, but if they are unperturbed ; we have to draw our lessons
